I’m pretty sure I only follow 3am Thoughts on Facebook to give me bullshit meme content. They post a bunch of stuff that’s supposed to get all deep in your feels, but a lot of it is just cringeworthy entitlement. Like this post that suggests:
“If you really love someone, even if there’s a million reasons to leave, you would still look for one reason to stay.”
What in the actual fuck?
That may be the most toxic thing I’ve read on that page yet. And still, girls who have a spirit person of Harley Quinn will eat that shit up, commenting how they’re a little crazy, but no one else could love him as hard as she did.
Here’s the deal, dude.
You don’t need a million reasons to leave to justify it over one reason to stay. In fact, you only need one reason to leave to justify doing so.
I don’t care how hot she is. I don’t care how good that pussy is. I don’t care if she’s great with kids. I don’t care if she’s usually pretty nice. I don’t even care if she spoils you.
If there is one thing happening that screams red flag or that makes your skin crawl or that makes you fearful of her, fucking bale.
I see a lot of times, people are on Reddit asking “My girlfriend and I are madly in love. She is the most amazing girlfriend ever…but she just won’t stop cheating on me.”
You don’t need to weigh the pros and cons. You just leave. The “best girlfriend ever” doesn’t do that one behavior (cheating, abusing, put you down) that hurts in ways that down play all the great things about her.
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