Why Hasn’t She Texted Me back?

Last weekend, I met a woman at a bar. She was with a bachelorette party . We ended up spending most of the evening on the dance floor and we exchanged numbers even though she lives 4 hours away. I know it is the right number and I texted her it was great meeting her, but she hasn’t responded yet. What should I do?

Waiting patiently from Missouri

She might text back, she might not.

She might remember who you were…

…or maybe you underestimate how drunk she was.

Regardless, it is impossible to say why she hasn’t. I would imagine she has probably seen the message and most likely it is just a “what happens on a girl’s trip stays on the girls trip” type of event where she is choosing to ignore it and leave the weekend behind her.

That doesn’t mean you guys didn’t enjoy each other’s company for the evening. It doesn’t mean anything about you at all.

It just means, she views you as a random guy who lives far away and doesn’t intend to keep in touch with. She was probably just living in the moment that night.

The fact of the matter is until she actually does reach out to you, it is important you don’t wrap yourself up in her and obsess over this. She’s a girl who lives 4 hours away, letting loose on a girl’s trip (like they tend to do on bachelorette parties), and likely was just going with the flow of the evening that happened to include exchanging numbers with a random guy.

You want to date the girl that wants to talk to you and that wants to respond.

There are plenty of girls out there just like that and that likely live closer. Keep on keeping on and maybe when you least expect it, you’ll get a random text from her – just don’t hold your breath. More likely, keep at your life and you’ll find someone that can’t wait to text you back.

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Hi, I spewed out all the shit you just read! I like long walks on the beach (but I'm mostly surrounded by cornfields), challenging the status quo of the dating scene, fucking all the rules of dating and encouraging men to live their best life. When I'm not trying to keep the lights on around here and raise two little girls, you can find me drinking and partying - you know the key Wallstreet success...ballin'.

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